Swim the Depths

is there a need for more scuba diving rather than skimming over the surface.  Aren't we all superficial until someone dives in. 

At some point we stop being children, taking in all the information. 
Think of all the things everyone tries to teach us, where we take it all and make some determination. 

Is this how I’m going to lead my life?

How do you take someone into the rat race we're in? Give them that time.  A place deprived of lifes bombardment.  There comes a point when too much is too much.  We have to purge to survive. 

Life with another person can bring you to this point, in a divorce or break up.  Others don’t fit into the formula of further existence. 

First stages of a relationship are what you think that other person would do for you.  Over time the formula changes, the other doesn’t fit into the scheme. 

A superficial relationship is one taking a person to where they think they need to go.  He has money, he fathered my children, has great sex, he’s fun to be around, but none go into the formula of your core.  A perfect individual is one who relates to this core make up. 

Time, changes the picture of your life. Each day experiences influence your make up.  A wife raising a child,  stops getting stimulation.  she gets to a certain point.  A man going into a job, travels, experiences different environments, grows with everything seen.  Returning to her, shows him her limits.  Raising a child can be so rudimentary, only a few variances occur.  Day after day there are things but at some point a wall is hit. You can stop or you die.  Doing the same things is the beginning of the end.  Fight the familiar parts of your life, accepting anything that is new and different is stimulating. 

Hooking someone, like a fish in the water, pulls him from where he wants to go, out of the depths of the water.  You have to stay in the water to survive but being brought up to the surface you see an entirely different world. The deeper you’ve gone into the pressures of a level, the harder it becomes to move up.  You develop a capability to swim at a depth, and it's the only way you can survive.  Moving up to the surface, where less pressure makes you expand farther than you are adapted to.  You'd like to go there but your adaptation prevents you from existing there. 

Surface swimmer can’t go down to those depths either.  They can meet at middle ground but neither can venture for long in each other’s world.  If you don’t listen to your gut, swimming at a depth you're built for, you will break down, sickness, disease, illness all infect you.  Your decision to be some where you shouldn’t be, shortens your life.  Pressure blocks your ability to flow.  Age makes it difficult to override.  The incorrectness of your life path.  Your heart fails when you’ve gone too deep.